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Therapy That Works for You: How to Start Your Search

Finding a therapist can feel overwhelming but breaking it into steps makes it easier. Start by thinking about why you want help.

Are you feeling stressed, anxious, or overwhelmed from caregiving? Are you facing grief or life changes? Knowing your main goal will help you find someone who specializes in your needs. 

Next, gather recommendations and do research. You can: 

  • Ask friends, family, or healthcare providers for referrals 
  • Search online directories like your insurance company, Psychology Today or Good Therapy 
  • Check local mental health organizations or state associations 

When you contact potential therapists, consider asking these top 5 questions: 

  • What areas do you specialize in? 
  • What is your approach or style of therapy? 
  • Do you offer in-person or virtual sessions? 
  • How much do sessions cost and do you accept insurance? 
  • How long do you typically work with clients on similar issues? 

Finally, trust your instincts. A good therapist should make you feel heard and understood. If the first person you meet doesn’t feel right, it’s okay to try someone else. Taking the time to find the right fit can provide support, guidance, and tools to manage stress and improve overall well-being.