Many people think that the solution to hoarding is easy: Just go into the home and clean everything up. But, if your loved one is a hoarder, you know it's not that simple.
Still, you can't just ignore the problem. Your loved one's health and safety are at risk. The clutter, garbage – and possibly animal feces and mold – can cause respiratory problems. A blocked doorway can pose a risk if there is a fire or other emergency and items on the floor can cause someone to trip and fall.
It's important to realize that your loved one believes that his or her possessions are useful. He or she will experience major anxiety at the prospect of throwing away these things.
In some instances, the residence of a hoarder may be unsafe as well as unpleasant. When you are in the home, be sure to wear closed-toe shoes. Be aware of your surroundings as you are walking through, including the ceiling. As a precaution – especially if you noticed animal feces or spoiled food in the home - clean your clothing thoroughly in 110 degree heat to kill off any bugs, eggs and bed bugs.
If you believe your loved one is a hoarder, seek professional assistance.
Hoarding is a mental illness and the hoarder will need counseling and treatment. He or she should be evaluated by a mental health professional. A case manager or social worker also will be able to help connect you and your loved one to the resources in your area to help get things organized, haul away trash, perform deep cleaning and bug removal, if necessary.
Helping a hoarder can be a very challenging and frustrating job. Patience is key. It is a very slow process, especially if your loved one resists assistance. You may spend an entire weekend helping your loved one get her kitchen clean with all the clutter from the surfaces removed, only to return a month later to find piles of newspapers and debris have returned.
Remember, a clean-up alone is only a temporary solution. Managing hoarding behavior for the long-term often requires a year or more of treatment therapy.
Make sure you are taking care of yourself too through the process. As a concerned loved one and caregiver, you may endure emotional distress and embarrassment over the situation. Step away from the situation and give yourself some space and time to regroup. Talk to a trusted friend or a professional, such as a social worker or counselor, about your concerns.
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