Feed for Toddlers

“Parents decide what and when food is served. Children decide whether and how much.” - Anonymous

Key Concepts:
  • Between the ages of 1-4, children should eat approximately three meals and two snacks per day.
  • 90% of all food allergies are caused by one of eight foods, including milk, eggs, wheat, soy, tree nuts, peanuts, fish, and shellfish.
  • Picky eating is a normal part of development! Did your child love strawberries yesterday and is now refusing them and yelling? Sounds about right!
  • The research tells us that carving out time to eat together has been linked to many benefits, including improved diet and self-esteem.
  • Feeding time provides a great opportunity for your child to develop their hand eye coordination and fine motor skills.

What to Try:

  • Try “supportive prompts” like “How about trying this string bean? It’s crunchy and fun to chew.”
  • Try to give your toddler some creative agency with their meal. For example, let them sprinkle (throw?!) cheese on their taco meat.
  • Offer new foods at snack time. This allows for your child to try a food without ruining a meal for you (read: throwing it on the ground and screaming).
  • Limit distractions during mealtime - keep the focus on your toddler and family (TVs off, phones away).
  • Keep mealtimes consistent and try to offer a meal before your child reaches that hangry state.
  • Fill your child’s plate with an appropriate amount of food, but let them decide how much they eat.
  • Listen to your baby! Look for hunger cues (pointing to food, excitement when food is in sight) and fullness cues (turning head away, shaking head no, pushing food away).
  • If you’re unsure of whether a food is a choking hazard, start by trying the Toilet Paper Roll Test - if the food item can fit through the roll, it’s considered a choking hazard.