Family Travel & Dementia

Family travel can be a joy or a big headache. Matters become even more complicated when you add a family member with dementia into the plans.

First you need to consider whether your loved one is able to travel. Travel causes stress in most of us. Stress can trigger and worsen symptoms of Alzheimer's Disease. People who are prone to wandering may be even more likely to wander when in unfamiliar surroundings. If the fear of the unknown and strange people cause your loved one to grow agitated and aggressive; a vacation may not be the best environment for your loved one. That said, if your loved one isn't yet showing these signs, a trip is possible.

You'll need to take some time before the trip to prepare and organize. Have an identification bracelet for your loved one to wear, or identification cards to carry, with his or her name, your name, and cell phone number. A travel pouch that hangs from the neck and can be tucked under the shirt is a good option if your loved one will agree to wear it. Write their name on the insides of his or her clothing. Carry a list of medications and physician's contact information too. Try to carry a current photo of your loved one with you at all times in case he or she becomes lost from the group.

Do not have your loved one be responsible for holding onto any important travel documents such as tickets, passports, or money. If you are flying to your destination, be sure to fly on low travel days when the airports will be less crowded and confusing. Book your tickets early. Arrange to have your seats together and try to be close to the bathroom.

In car travel, be sure to take plenty of breaks and see that your loved one is comfortable. Bring along a portable DVD player with some favorite movies or a tablet computer with games to keep him or her entertained. Be cautious using a public restrooms in airports or rest stops. Have someone accompany him or her into the restroom. Many of these large facilities have an exit door on the other side of the building that could easily confuse your loved one.

At the hotel, leave the bathroom light on overnight. Be sure that the door is locked with the safety latch or bolt and consider placing a chair in front of the door in case of nighttime wandering.

Realize that you probably won't be getting the best night's sleep yourself. Don't over schedule your trip. Leave plenty of time, and give yourself some time when you return home from the trip to rest. With proper preparation, planning and patience, your trip with your loved one will be a success!