Because we know that the stress of the registry is real and there’s so much out there, we called on Allie to educate us on what items are developmentally appropriate for your registry. It can be so challenging to figure out what to actually purchase when it comes to equipment. Does 5-stars and 20,000 Amazon reviews make it the right purchase? Your sister-in-law’s recommendation? Sometimes yes, and sometimes no. With Allie’s expertise as an occupational therapist who specializes in sensory integration, she’s the perfect person to walk you through what she feels are the key items to avoid, plus the essential ones to purchase.
Here’s what Allie has to say...
In general, my best advice is that you never want a device that puts your little one in a position where they cannot hold themselves. We want our little ones to use their tiny muscles and have the opportunity to move through each milestone - from tummy time, to pushing up on all 4s, or from pulling to stand, to eventually walking. Ironically, the equipment that is often marketed to us as great for development, often actually does the opposite. It not only holds them in a passive position but also often prevents them from using their own strength to move through the stages of development.
There is one item on this list that you might be surprised to see - electronic toys. My rule of thumb is to avoid any toys that require batteries. These toys often play for your little ones instead of allowing your little ones to have to come up with ideas on how to play. For example, an electric drum plays at the push of a button, but an actual drum allows your little one the chance to learn to grasp the drum stick and figure out how to use it in a way that makes noise. Remember, play is so important for babies! We want them to have the opportunity to engage and learn through all 8 of their senses.
Top 5 Categories to Avoid:
Top 8 Pieces of Equipment That Are Good to Have:
Here are a few of my favorite things. Besides the essentials like the car seat, crib and stroller. Here are a few things that I love as you move through tummy time, crawling and up into exploring.
For more information on Allie, check out Play2Progress, a playspace and occupational therapy center in Los Angeles that provides classes for kids, parental support, training for schools and childcare providers, 1:1 OT consultations and so much more. Also, be sure to check out Allie’s new book, Play to Progress.