Body image issues for parents of tweens & teens

Help your child build a healthy body image by fostering media literacy, encouraging self-worth, and focusing on body appreciation over appearance.

“The best gift you are ever going to give someone — the permission to feel safe in their own skin.”― Hannah Brencher

Key Concepts:

  • Body image is a combination of the thoughts and feelings that one has about one’s body. It is influenced by internal (e.g. personality) and external (e.g. social environment) factors.
  • Those with perfectionist tendencies, high achievers, rigid 'black and white' thinkers, and those with low self-esteem or depression are at a higher risk of developing body dissatisfaction.
  • Adopting a view of your body that incorporates both body positivity and body neutrality, can make a difference in overall mental health and long-term outcomes.
  • Social media and marketing plays a dual role in both supporting and negatively impacting body image among tweens and teens.
  • Body image concerns can look much different in boys and girls.

What to Try:

  1. Encourage your child to take breaks from social media and partake in other activities that foster a good perception of their bodies and self-worth
  2. Make sure to discuss media literacy with your children. Ask your children what they think of the images they see.
  3. Focus on the body as an instrument. Body appreciation means respecting all of the things your body does and is capable of.
  4. Curb your own body image issues. Be careful about your language about yourself and others.
  5. Discuss the qualities of people beyond physical appearance. Recognize and notice the characteristics that show the complexity of peoples nature, and not just their beauty.
  6. Get support if you need it, or if you are concerned about any early warning signs or new behaviors.